Cornerstone Church With Dustin Bates

Unexpected Family Situation | Fighting For Your Family

Life rarely follows our plans, especially regarding family. When facing unexpected family situations, we must guard against resentment, which can poison future blessings and become generational. Jacob's family illustrates how favoritism and jealousy create destructive cycles, while Ruth and Naomi's story demonstrates how God can redeem broken situations. The key is trusting God for future restoration, remembering that He can build beautiful things from broken pieces. With Christ as our ultimate redeemer, even our most painful circumstances can become part of God's redemptive plan, working together for good for those who love Him.

Fighting for Your Marriage | Fighting for Your Family

Fighting for your marriage requires recognizing the real enemy isn't your spouse but the temptations that threaten your relationship. These temptations mirror what 1 John 2 describes as the lust of the flesh (seeking fulfillment outside your marriage), the lust of the eyes (materialism and discontentment), and the pride of life (self-sufficiency). When we give in to these temptations, we experience separation, shame, fear, and blame-shifting in our relationships. To build a healthier marriage, be careful about where you get advice, avoid entertaining tempting thoughts, take responsibility for your actions, communicate expectations clearly, apologize sincerely, and practice forgiveness.

Generational Spiritual Warfare | Fighting For Your Family

Family relationships bring both our greatest blessings and our toughest battles. Generational strongholds—patterns of sin or brokenness that pass through family lines—can trap us in destructive cycles. These strongholds manifest in various ways: emotional baggage, manipulation, destructive coping mechanisms, family dysfunction, and misplaced priorities. The good news is that these patterns can be broken through recognizing we're in a spiritual battle, using the weapons of truth and discernment, acknowledging our own role in the problem, and taking intentional steps to change. By identifying strongholds, confessing, repenting, and choosing what values to pass down, one generation can change a family's trajectory forever.

God's Blueprint | Fighting For Your Family

God's original design for family remains relevant despite cultural shifts that question its value. Research confirms that married people with children report higher happiness levels, validating the biblical teaching that humans thrive in family units. The family is central to God's plan, established in Genesis as His first creation after the world itself. God's blueprint includes being created in His image, distinct male and female identities, sex within marriage, meaningful work, spiritual leadership, partnership between spouses, and the formation of new family units. As both our greatest blessing and battleground, family relationships require intentional effort to align with God's design.

A Church On Mission | And On This Rock

Jesus declared that His church would stand against the gates of hell, requiring courage, worship, and mission. Being on mission means recognizing that Jesus came not just for personal salvation but to establish God's kingdom on earth. The Great Commission calls us to go, make disciples, baptize, and teach as we extend this kingdom. This mission isn't optional—it's central to following Jesus. The church is God's plan for spreading His kingdom, and despite our failures, it will not fail. We must remember our calling through regular reminders and embrace courage, worship, and mission in our daily lives.

A Worshipping Church | And On This Rock

Worship is the fuel that sustains a courageous church, extending far beyond Sunday songs to encompass our entire lives. We were created with a space that only God can fill, and when we worship anything else, we diminish ourselves. True worship involves both mind and body, as Romans 12 teaches us to present our bodies as living sacrifices while being transformed by the renewing of our minds. Modern idols like money, body image, and entertainment compete for our devotion, but corporate worship recalibrates our hearts and anchors us to God's truth. By examining what we truly worship and realigning our lives accordingly, we become more fully who God created us to be.

A Courageous Church | And On This Rock

God's plan for changing the world centers on the local church, which Jesus promised would prevail against the gates of hell. Christians are called to be salt and light, preserving culture and illuminating darkness through courageous action. Fear, however, often paralyzes the church as it did the Israelites at the edge of the Promised Land. A courageous church preaches the whole Bible, confronts spiritual darkness, challenges people to change, and speaks truth when culture demands silence. This courage manifests personally when we stay in difficult situations, speak truth at personal cost, live by God's wisdom, and help those who cannot reciprocate.

Supportive Relationships | NEXT

Building a legacy of faith requires intentional discipleship across generations. Drawing from Deuteronomy 6 and Joshua's example of creating stone memorials, we learn that our testimonies of God's faithfulness should be shared openly with future generations. Research shows that young people are more likely to maintain their faith when they have multiple adult mentors and participate in intergenerational worship. Rather than allowing social media to disciple our children, we must actively share both the gospel and our lives with them. Every believer, regardless of age, has a vital role in passing on faith through authentic relationships and shared experiences.

Where We're Going Next

God's vision for the church includes three key characteristics: diversity that reflects heaven, intergenerational community, and functioning as a true Christian family. Churches fulfill their mission through the 'C3 wheel': connecting people to God, caring for one another, and cultivating powerful faith. When believers understand their 'why' - both personally and collectively - they gain clarity about their direction and can better fulfill God's calling. As churches navigate transitions, they must remember God goes before them, preparing the way for new seasons of ministry. Every believer has a responsibility to move beyond being a spectator to becoming an active participant in building God's kingdom.

What Does the Bible Really Say About Tithing?

The concept of giving to God begins in Genesis with Abel's first fruits offering, while tithing (giving a tenth) first appears with Abraham. While the Old Testament established specific tithing requirements, the New Testament emphasizes generous, cheerful giving that flows from a transformed heart. Early Christians actually shared everything they had, going beyond the 10% standard. We give because we believe God's promises, to support Kingdom work, and because generosity actually blesses us spiritually, emotionally, and even physically. Though some may abuse religious giving, true biblical generosity isn't about rules but relationship with a generous God.